Every Christmas season, I have a strong dislike of going to the store. Why, because of those Salvation Army bell ringers. I know, it sounds weird, but those bell ringers make me uncomfortable. Either the people are a little too friendly, or they seem completely bored, or that high pitched bell just strikes a wrong nerve with me, but I feel pressured to give money. Half the time I don’t even have cash or change to give (they should take that into consideration). Due to the circumstances I usually give money to the Salvation Army out of guilt. When I do give out of guilt or pressure it means nothing to me. 2 Corinthians 9:7 says Each of you should give what you have decided in your heart to give, not reluctantly or under compulsion, for God loves a cheerful giver.
This verse makes me feel like a horrible person. When I give to the Salvation Army I give with the intent of helping them. I feel I am making a difference, but truthfully, my heart is not in it.
Have you ever felt pressured or guilted into donating money or time to an organization? Did it affect how you gave or served? 
How do you think you can change your attitude the next time you are pressured or guilted into giving?
 
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